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Using External vs. Internal Expectations
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Below is an extract from the book "How to be Happy"
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Using External vs. Internal Expectations
Several factors like control and independence govern an individual’s personality,
relationships, and determine how successful he is in life. There are people who are very
dependent on others’ approval for their actions. This dependence leads to low self-
esteem, depression and failure in relationships, in an attempt to meet others’
expectations. These people give more importance to others than to their own power of
reasoning. If one feels burdened by the need to do good for others, or has to take their
permission before doing any task then these are clear signs that one is in the web of
external expectations. One has to learn to break this habit and put themselves before
others, without being selfish.
Many times people start depending on others to fulfill their emotional or financial needs by
acting weak and helpless. Others think they are indispensable and that the home or
workplace cannot run in their absence.
Such people are forever doing things for others and putting themselves under severe
stress in the process. This happens when one has low self-confidence and belief in one’s
capabilities. The solution to this problem lies in taking control of the situation and thinking
about oneself without harming the interest of others. An individual’s higher self has the
ability to know what is best for the person and hence, one must listen to one’s inner voice
in any situation. This means that it is all right to seek advice and approval from others,
but the individual himself must be the decision maker.
The key to internal control lies in first accepting oneself with one’s weaknesses. The next
step is to believe in oneself and one’s capacity to make sound decisions based on one’s
experience and judgment.
By taking control of one’s life one minimizes the need for others in one’s life. This is not to
say that one must be a lone ranger, but that one must be independent in thought and
action. This helps one to take control over one’s life and to lead a happy and fulfilled life,
without carrying the burden of other’s expectations. Hence, the responsibility of tapping
into one’s internal control lies with the individual himself.
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The above is an extract from the ebook "How to be Happy"
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1. How to be Happy – An Overview
2. The ABC's of Happiness
3. The Secret of Happiness
4. Where to Begin Your Quest for Happiness
5. Characteristics of a Psychologically Healthy, Happy Person
6. Is Happiness a Conscious Ultimate Concern?
7. Why is it Wrong to Make Happiness Your Top Goal
8. How to Focus Your Energy and Intelligence to Attain Happiness
9. How Satisfaction of Values Determine Our Happiness
10. Learn How to Be Happy – Preparing Your Self-Development Plan
11. How to Control Your Emotions
12. The External and Internal Routes to Happiness
13. Using Self-Exploration and Problem-Solving Skills to Achieve Happiness
14. Six Steps to Find the Underlying, Internal Causes of Unhappiness
15. How to Make Radical or Lifestyle Changes to Attain Greater Happiness
16. How to Know What Will Make You Happy
17. How to Resolve Your Conflicts to Bring Happiness
18. Self-Actualization – Learn to Attain Higher Self Power
19. How to Imagine and Create an Internal Model of Happiness in Your Mind
20. Two Worldviews - Negative versus Positive Thinking
21. How Can You Be Happy in an Imperfect World?
22. Deficit Motivation vs. Abundance Motivation
23. How to Develop Positive Thinking and Feel Happier in Everyday Life
24. Increasing Your Self-Worth to Get Greater Happiness
25. How to Develop a Positive Self-Image
26. Learn to Accept Self and Others
27. How to Be More Self-Confident
28. Using External vs. Internal Expectations to Evaluate Yourself
29. Sources of Dependency and External Control
30. Sources of Internal Control
31. How to Be Internally Directed and Effective with Others
32. How to Control Other People
33. How to Achieve Peak Functioning of Your Mind and Body
34. Optimal Learning as the Basis of Happiness
35. How Does Harmonious Functioning Affect Happiness
36. How Does Harmonious Functioning Affect Emotions
37. How Mental Control Increases Your Level of Happiness
38. Learn to Be a Master of Your Emotions
39. Resolve Your Inner Conflicts to Bring Harmony and Happiness
40. Looking at a Problem from a Higher Level of Understanding
41. How to Overcome Depression and other Negative Emotions
42. How to Overcome Grief, Sadness and Apathy in Your Life
43. How to Lower Your Anxiety and Stress and Increase Confidence
44. Learn to Be Happy in All Situations
45. How to Funnel Your Energy to Maximize Happiness
46. How to Stay in Control of Your Life and Be Happy
47. How to Achieve Your Goals in Life and Be Happy
48. How to Manage Your Time and Create Happiness in Your Life
49. Your Checklist about How to Be Happy
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- How to be Happy - An Overview
- Where to Begin Your Quest for Happiness
- Characteristics of a Psychologically Healthy, Happy Person
- Is Happiness a Conscious Ultimate Concern?
- Why is it Wrong to Make Happiness Your Top Goal?
- How to Focus Your Energy and Intelligence to Attain Happiness
- How Satisfaction of Values Determine Our Happiness
- Learn How to Be Happy – Preparing Your Self-Development Plan
- How to Control Your Emotions
- The External and Internal Routes to Happiness
- How to be Happy: A Complete Guide to Rational Living
- Use Self-Exploration and Problem-Solving to Achieve Happiness
- Six Steps to Find the Underlying, Internal Causes of Unhappiness
- How to Make Radical or Lifestyle Changes to Attain Greater Happiness
- How to Know What Will Make You Happy?
- How to Resolve Your Conflicts to Bring Happiness
- Self-Actualization – Learn to Attain Higher Self Power
- How to Imagine and Create an Internal Model of Happiness in Your Mind
- Two Worldviews - Negative versus Positive Thinking
- How Can You Be Happy in an Imperfect World?
- Deficit Motivation vs. Abundance Motivation
- How to Develop Positive Thinking and Feel Happier in Everyday Life
- Increasing Your Self-Worth to Get Greater Happiness
- How to Develop a Positive Self-Image
- Learn to Accept Self and Others
- How to Be More Self-Confident
- Using External vs. Internal Expectations to Evaluate Yourself
- Sources of Dependency and External Control
- A Complete Guide to Rational Living Sources of Internal Control
- How to Be Internally Directed and Effective with Others
- How to Achieve Peak Functioning of Your Mind and Body
- Optimal Learning as the Basis of Happiness
- How Does Harmonious Functioning Affect Happiness
- How Does Harmonious Functioning Affect Emotions
- How Mental Control Increases Your Level of Happiness
- Learn to Be a Master of Your Emotions
- Resolve Your Inner Conflicts to Bring Harmony and Happiness
- Looking at a Problem from a Higher Level of Understanding
- How to Overcome Depression and other Negative Emotions
- How to Overcome Grief, Sadness and Apathy in Your Life
- How to Lower Your Anxiety and Stress and Increase Confidence
- Learn to Be Happy in All Situations
- How to Funnel Your Energy to Maximize Happiness
- How to Stay in Control of Your Life and Be Happy
- How to Achieve Your Goals in Life and Be Happy
- How to Manage Your Time and Create Happiness in Your Life
- How to be Happy: A Complete Guide to Rational Living
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